Monday, June 21, 2010



Dear friend of Lois’ Lodge,


Because of your prayers, Lois’ Lodge has been provided with an opportunity to continue to use our current Maternity Home setting for at least another year. What a tremendous blessing this has been for our ministry. Thank you to Central Church of God for your continued partnership in serving these women. We are continuing on with our capital campaign in order to raise the necessary funds needed to acquire property to assure that the ministry will continue on way into the future. It is our goal that no women in the greater Charlotte area or beyond, will feel like their only option is to have an abortion.


We have lost the use of the three smaller homes which were available for our use in the Dilworth area. As a consequence we will be leasing property to house our offices and to allow for the redevelopment of our Mom Shoppe. The Mom Shoppe program was invaluable for moms in the community in need of learning experiences, counseling and items for their children. We are excited about reopening this program!


Please prayerfully consider investing in the future of this ministry by making a donation to allow for the current operation of Lois’ Lodge and a special donation to our property fund. The funds donated to our capital campaign will be used to develop a new location to allow Lois’ Lodge to continue to serve our residents and expand our services to the local community. Please help us to demonstrate the love of Christ in practical ways to those in need. Today, would you please join those who have contributed or raised $1,000 for Lois’ Lodge? Mark the enclosed envelope with directions regarding the use of your donation. Thank you for joining us in accomplishing God’s purposes at Lois’ Lodge.


Most Sincerely,


Debbie Durrell, Executive Director

Lois' Lodge

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

New Yard Sale Location!


Please join us for our April 10th Yard Sale! New location: 6173 East Independence Blvd. in Charlotte!

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Support the Lodge

Please click on the link to check out this site from one of our amazing supporters!

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Letter from Paul and Marilyn Smith



Dear Friends and Associates:

Up front, let me be honest with you: I’m struggling with what and how to communicate to you about a financial need for a wonderful organization. Not because of any reservations about the agency. But, because I so desire to be the voice for those who cannot speak and give you good, even compelling, reasons to participate in something so wonderful and so important to the most vulnerable among us: unborn and new born babies and their young mothers. So, I’m just going to pray that God will give me the right words to say and will touch your heart if you are one of those needed to make this a success. Here goes…

Many of you will know that Marilyn and I once served as houseparents at Lois Lodge, a Christian agency that helps women facing a crisis pregnancy. To help with their fund-raising, once a year they have a "WalkaThon". Marilyn and I are seeking people who will sponsor us as we participate in the walk on Saturday, March 27th.

Funds you give to sponsor us will not only help with their operating expenses but also help them toward the purchase of a permanent location for their services, as in less than five months they will lose their current premises unless able to purchase it. I’m genuinely excited about this opportunity for them to solidify their program by actually owning their current premises. You can read more about this opportunity by going to http://www.loislodge.org/savethelodge.html. This is one reason we have decided to set a goal of raising $10,000 in sponsorships this year.

Our fundraising target is larger than normal, but with the challenge of retaining their current facilities, every dollar is needed. This is about caring for those most vulnerable in our society- the unborn and newborn, as well as mothers in a crisis situation, not just this year but in the years to come. With your help, we CAN reach this.

Why should you seriously consider being a financial partner with Lois Lodge? Let me mention three reasons. First, because it’s a well-run agency, led by a capable and gifted director. I can personally affirm that she is competent, caring and a person of integrity. You can be confident your dollars will be conscientiously and wisely used. They’re not a high profile agency with the money to pay for “high-powered” fundraisers, but they are one of those smaller agencies that our community and region so vitally needs.

Secondly, we’re talking about the care and nurturing of unborn children and their (often) very young mothers experiencing a crisis pregnancy. Picture if this young woman were your daughter or sister or grandchild- wouldn’t you want her to be in a non-institutionalized, family-oriented environment among loving people who want to help them with their needs, be it physically, emotionally, socially, spiritually? Wouldn't you want them to be provided with balanced wisdom and insight regarding parenting their child or placing the child for adoption for someone unable to have children? I would! That alone is a good reason to invest in this ministry. As well, we know that God cares deeply about children. When Jesus’ disciples tried to hinder children from seeing him, Jesus “… was indignant and said to them, “Let the children come to me; do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of God.” Mark 10:14 (ESV). A gift to Lois Lodge is an investment in the life of a child.


And, while I could mention many other reasons, I’ll close with this one: There is a genuine and very real need to be addressed. The property they currently use is going to be sold. They have until July to find about $1.1 million dollars to purchase, try to find an alternative location (no easy task given the nature of this work) or close their services. I don’t want this to happenr. So, that’s why I can enthusiastically appeal to you to consider sponsoring us and helping us to raise the $10,000 that would help toward averting the crisis they are facing. Or, perhaps I should better say, the opportunity God has given them to be established with their own premises to provide a foundation for ministry and service for many years to come.

You can invest either by mail or by an online donation (using your debit or credit card). We have our own personalized web page so that you can easily contribute to this wonderful organization online. Go to http://www.firstgiving.com/paulandmarilynsmith and it has all the options you’ll need to make an online contribution to Lois Lodge. As well, you’ll get to see a great photo of Marilyn and our granddaughter, Maya on the page too! Oh yes, I’m in the photo too, but any photo of me can rarely be described as “great”! :-) Or, if you prefer to give by mail, please refer to the attached file- it has all the information you need for donating in that manner.

Many thanks for your consideration and support -- and don't forget to forward this to anyone you think might want to donate too! It's probably going to take a small "village" of people to reach our goal (Although I don't rule out God being able to simply impress on one heart to give the full amount needed. He's not limited by my plans... thankfully!)

Thanks for your consideration and, if you do give, please do so by no later than Friday, March 26th.

God bless,

Paul (& Marilyn) P.S. I’ll close with this reminder as you consider an investment in the work of Lois Lodge: “ I want each of you to take plenty of time to think it over, and make up your own mind what you will give. That will protect you against sob stories and arm-twisting. God loves it when the giver delights in the giving. God can pour on the blessings in astonishing ways so that you're ready for anything and everything, more than just ready to do what needs to be done.” 2 Corinthians 9:7-8 (The Message Bible). So, just do what God wants you to do. And, if He does prompt you to give, do so with the confidence that He will bless you “in astonishing ways”.

Optional Reading: Here’s one way I envisioned how God can raise the $10,000:

If two people invest $1,000, that's $2,000 toward the goal. I believe there are at least two people receiving this email that have the means and whose heart God can touch about this need.

If six people give $500, that's $3,000. I believe that, for at least six of you, you can do this.

If ten people give $250, that $2,500.

If God touches the hearts of eighteen people to give as mentioned above, we'd be at $7,500. That is do-able!

If 15 people can donate $100, that's another $1,500. Only $1,000 from our goal at this point.

If ten people give $50 and another twenty give $25, that's another $1,000 and the $10,000 goal has been reached.

So, we're asking God for at least 63 people who will respond. As of this writing, we've already had a $25 sponsorship, so now it's 62 people. Of course, God probably has a different way to reach the $10,000 different to what I've outlined. But, please join Marilyn and me in praying that He will bless our efforts to raise these funds, not for our own “glory”, but because of the great need for a continued service for women experiencing a crisis pregnancy and for the children they will either raise or place for adoption. You can be confident that your gift to Lois Lodge is a GOOD investment.

If you can't help at this time, we certainly understand. But, do lift up a prayer for Lois Lodge’s funding needs to be met!

Friday, February 12, 2010


$5,000 Commitment! A huge shout out from the Lois' Lodge team to the Marty Tomberlin Sunday School Class at Hickory Grove Baptist Church in Charlotte. During a planning dinner last night, this class committed to raising $5,000+ for our capital campaign. Thank you! We need 199 more groups and classes to make this commitment. How about yours?

Friday, February 5, 2010

1000 x 1000 Campaign Fundraising Tips- The Bake Sale

The Best Bake Sale Ever

(from The Best Bake Sale Ever Cookbook by Barbara Grunes)


Fund raising plans come and go, but the bake sale perseveres. Sweet baked good for sale remind us of parties in the gym, the senior trip to Washington DC, or raising money for a new church roof. If you are busy as most people these days, it may be tempting to just pick up some cookies at the grocery store. But how much more meaningful it is to bake something, to show off your baking skills and teach them to your children (or your nieces and nephews or your friend’s children; or even the Lois’ Lodge moms).


Tips for Bake Sales:

Presentation. Looks count. While pretty presentation isn’t mandatory, it will help your baked treats sell faster, and maybe even fetch a premium price.


Portability. Dragging a lemon meringue pie off to the bake sale just doesn’t cut it, and don’t even think about letting chocolate mousse sit out in the gym for 2 hours. If it isn’t portable and doesn’t hold up well under variable conditions, don’t make it.


Portions. The same church ladies who normally cut 2 inch brownies into quarters to avoid eating a real dessert will throw fat and calories out the window when they’re buying brownies at a bake sale. Forget petite- that brownie had better look like it’s worth paying for. While you can sell a plate of smaller cookies or brownies, selling items by the piece usually yields better profits.


Familiarity. Bake sale foods tend to be old favorites, the sorts of items our mothers or grandmothers or aunts baked for school or church events: cherry pie, angel food cake, sugar cookies, brownies. People relate warmly to family connections and wax nostalgic about the kind of baking they rarely do themselves. Labeling a desert “Grandma’s Lemon Squares” or “Aunt Lucy’s Famous Apple Pie” always sparks interest, especially if you have a good story to accompany the recipe.

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

Shawpkins Community Group Praying for Lois' Lodge

Lois' Lodge sends a huge THANK YOU to the Shawpkins Community Group from Elevation Church who is spending time at Lois' Lodge this evening praying for our staff, our residents, our capital campaign and various other prayer requests. This group of brothers and sisters in Christ sincerely believes in the power of prayer. We are honored to have them on our team.

Use Your Tax Refund to Help Lois' Lodge

Consider using your tax refund to help Lois' Lodge. Not only can you feel good about helping us with our capital campaign, you may also be able to deduct the amount donated on next year's tax return. Your tax adviser can help you take advantage of tax breaks related to charitable donations. And don't forget to apply for a matching contribution from your employer. Lois' Lodge is a 501C3 organization. EIN# 56-2077047. Thank you!

Thursday, January 28, 2010

New Resident

A new mom-to-be moved in last night and we are at capacity! Please pray for our girls, volunteers and staff, that the Lord will blanket our residents and their babies with the love of Christ.

Wednesday, January 20, 2010

100 Ways to Raise $100 for Lois' Lodge

Ready to help? We have the tools you need. Check out the new 100 Ways to Raise $100 page on the Lois' Lodge website!

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Letter from the Lois' Lodge Board of Directors

January 13, 2010

“The Lord is your protection; you have made God Most High your place of safety. Nothing bad will happen to you; no disaster will come to your home.”
Psalm 91:9-10

Dear Friends of Lois’ Lodge,

As a valued part of the inner circle of our ministry, we want to keep you informed about Lois’ Lodge. This past year was a lean year for us, just as it was for most other non-profits. In spite of some financial belt-tightening, the maternity home continues to operate soundly on a day-to-day basis, and stays at or near capacity. The needs of the mothers in our care are being consistently met, both spiritually and financially. This is due to the faithful support of donors and volunteers and the solid management of our resources by the Lois’ Lodge staff.

Late last year, Lois’ Lodge found itself in a critical situation. For the past few years, we have been blessed with rent-free facilities in the Dillworth area, but this arrangement must now change. As a result, Lois’ Lodge has the opportunity – and immense challenge – of purchasing these properties within six months. The Lodge must cease operations here if we cannot purchase the property by July. Although the homes are reasonably priced, the total cost will be $1.1 million. This is an unprecedented amount of capital to be raised in an extremely short time frame. We know that God is greater than our challenges, and we look to Him for an amazing victory.

The Board of Lois’ Lodge is reaching out to you at this time for one reason: Support.

Unwavering support may take many forms, with the most important being prayer. Please pray for the young women who come through our doors, for the staff and volunteers who reflect God’s grace to them on a daily basis, and for our fundraising efforts. Although the goal seems overwhelming, we have faith in God’s ability to save the Lodge.

Please watch for our upcoming special Lois’ Lodge newsletter, which will give more details and lots of ideas on how you can join in saving the Lodge. God’s hand will be readily seen through your faithful support.

May God strengthen us for His use,

Members of Lois’ Lodge Board of Directors:

John Marx, President
Falinda Farley
Kathi Ingrish
Gwen Johnson
Zeritha McFadden
Deana Kocylowsky
Verne Phifer

PS: If you would like to sign up to be on the Lois' Lodge mailing list or receive additional information regarding ministry needs please contact ericloislodge@aol.com or call us at 704-376-8550.